Lily*, 25, had been dating Luke* for a few months when the inevitable ‘body count’ conversation came up. “That was the start of our break-up spiral,” she says. What started as a friendly conversation ...

Do you care about how many people your partner slept with before you met? Would you ask them their ‘body count’? Would you tell them yours? Or is the whole ‘body count’ debate archaic, misogynistic, ...